Baby wearing isn't a term I was familiar with a year ago, neither attachment parenting. I was the sort of Mum that parented from her heart with my older girls and if it didn't feel right I wouldn't go down that road. If they cried, my arms were always emptied to hold them. I did have a baby carrier which I used when they were young to take a walk around the shops or when they become unsettled at home however they become too heavy...